Are you feeling battered by the storm?
Feeling out of control or unsure how you'll get through?

Wouldn't you rather be feeling secure and in control?

Since you are still here reading this, I’m going to guess that you would.

You’d rather feel like you can handle what is being thrown at you.
You’d rather feel in your power.
You’d rather feel confident.

You would rather be centered.

And you can ...

I’m giving you my tips, tricks, and tools for feeling confident, centered, and in your power – despite whatever may be happening around you, or whatever storm is passing through your life.

That’s what Be Centered is all about.

Hey! I’m Shelby Melissa – energy mentor, MSW grad, and Reiki Master. Some people call me an energy goddess – but honestly, I’m no different than you. I’ve simply spent time cultivating my energy, working on deprogramming and reprogramming what I’ve been taught, and learning.
In 2016, I was going through quite the personal storm. I had just graduated with my MSW and burnt myself out. Applying to jobs in my field at $15/hour, no benefits, would leave me crying on the floor. I didn’t have any energy left, and those jobs weren’t going to provide me with enough of an energetic exchange to even get me back on my feet. On top of that, I was planning my wedding.
So instead, I used the 6 months of student loan deferment to tend to myself. (And do a lot of playing the Sims and Stardew Valley.) But I also took the time to learn, dive into myself, cultivate new tools and habits. The wisdom and tools I gained to find my power during that storm are what I want to share with you in Be Centered.

Over the 6 days of Be Centered ...

You’ll be nourishing and reprogramming your energy. You’ll be unearthing and uncovering your power – because it hasn’t gone anywhere. It is within you. You’re reclaiming it from within. And it will look something like this:

Day One -
Fill Your Needs.

You have to take care of yourself first. This is how you begin refilling your cup. And as the airline attendants tell you – you’ve got to put your mask on first.

Day Two -
Permission to do Nothing.

You’ve been trying to do too much for too long. Here is your permission slip to take a break. (Seriously, I’ll sign one and everything if you need it.)

Day Three -

That’s right – you are going to be asked to sit with yourself and get in tune with your needs, and creating space to do well, nothing.

Day Four -

We aren’t going through this without deprogramming and reprogramming the thoughts and beliefs society has given us. They underlie all the other pressures you’ve been feeling.

Day Five -

Oh yes. We are journaling. And I’ve got some questions to assist you in digging into those thoughts and beliefs. Uproot them from, well, the roots.

Day Six -

I’m bringing you how I use EFT or tapping to aid in reframing, because sometimes the thoughts and beliefs are tricky. Give those extra sticky programs a swift kick in the booty.

Then we’ll close this guide with one last day to review all that you have accomplished! And invite you to keep going, keep applying, and take that next step.

Are you ready to feel more confident, centered, and in your power?

You are invited to Be Centered!


 – 6 Days of tools and step-by-step guides on how to use them
– Feel more secure and centered
– Find your power in the storm

Your Q's Answered

Yes! Once you purchase, you’ll get immediate access to Day One’s content. Then everyday for 5 days after that, you’ll get new content. On the 7th day, there will be a review and next steps – but not any new tools to learn.

The goal of Be Centered is to make it as affordable to as many people as possible. Things are difficult in the world right now, and so budgets are tight. In order to keep the price so low, there isn’t any access to Shelby included. However, you are welcome to join the That Magic Life Facebook Group – Shelby is in the group and able to answer questions and celebrate your accomplishments with you! Click here to join the group!

We are not offering refunds on this offer at this time.

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