Private coaching bringing together your goals with my framework
to change your relationship and experience with money and give you more confidence and comfortability surrounding money in your life and business.
Tune into your heart. What do you desire?
Hey, it is Shelby here. Sit with me for a moment.
Read this, then close your eyes, or keep them open. Or listen as your computer dictates this to you.
Tune into you. Into your heart, into your soul.
What kind of relationship do you desire with money?
Build the picture. What does that relationship look like?
How do you feel about it? What does your day to day life look like if that relationship is the norm for you?
Hold onto that.
And I want you to hold onto this too: You are worthy of your desires being met.
You were worthy of that even before you were born into this world. And you continue to be worthy of it.
You aren’t just worthy of your needs being met, you are inherently worthy of fulfilling your desires as well.
For many of us, our desired relationship with money isn’t usually the one we currently have with money.
But the good news is that we can make that our reality. We can actualize those desires and bring them into our experience.
It is time to create a different reality around money.
Societal structures use shame and guilt are used to keep money out of your hands.
Imagine how different it would be without those feelings.
✅ You would share your prices with more confidence.
✅ You would be able to more comfortably look at your numbers and spreadsheets.
✅ That critical and sometimes nasty voice in the back of your head would be a bit quieter.
✅ And you would make more money!
Meaning that you get to have that home with a yard for your kids and fur-kids, you get to go on vacations to see your friends and families or even take them on vacations, you get to donate to AOC’s re-election or support some other local candidate you love, you get to reinvest in your business and scale.
And so much more.
All of this is supported by a relationship that is without shame or guilt.
A relationship that no matter what external circumstances are happening, still feels good to be in.
Supportive. Trusting. Secure.
That's the new reality we are creating.
Are you in?
I am in this with you.
There was a time when an $80 monthly payment for a program was a lot for me. When I couldn’t imagine having my iced caramel macchiato regularly. A $5 coffee was a treat, an every once in a while thing, not a regular purchase. I’d say to myself, “Just think how much that adds up over a month, a year!” There was a time when looking at apartments in beach towns was daydreaming, not planning for my future. And there was no way I would have bought a $200 fake plant.
But that is the reality that I live now. An $80 monthly payment is no big deal. Going to Starbucks is still a treat, but one I get to give myself on a regular basis – without guilt about how much I am spending on coffee in a month or a year. Beach apartments are not some far off thing, but a very real next step. And yes, I did recently buy a $200 fake plant.
And all of that is because I changed my relationship with money.
I dedicated myself to digging in. To journaling. To being honest and vulnerable with myself. Over the years, things had shifted, but it really changed when I made that commitment and developed my own way to change my money mindset.
And I am dedicated to supporting you create your new reality with money.
I am in this with you.
There was a time when an $80 monthly payment for a program was a lot for me. When I couldn’t imagine having my iced caramel macchiato regularly. A $5 coffee was a treat, an every once in a while thing, not a regular purchase. I’d say to myself, “Just think how much that adds up over a month, a year!” There was a time when looking at apartments in beach towns was daydreaming, not planning for my future. And there was no way I would have bought a $200 fake plant.
But that is the reality that I live now. An $80 monthly payment is no big deal. Going to Starbucks is still a treat, but one I get to give myself on a regular basis – without guilt about how much I am spending on coffee in a month or a year. Beach apartments are not some far off thing, but a very real next step. And yes, I did recently buy a $200 fake plant.
And all of that is because I changed my relationship with money.
I dedicated myself to digging in. To journaling. To being honest and vulnerable with myself. Over the years, things had shifted, but it really changed when I made that commitment and developed my own way to change my money mindset.
And I am dedicated to supporting you create your new reality with money.
I am in this with you.
There was a time when an $80 monthly payment for a program was a lot for me. When I couldn’t imagine having my iced caramel macchiato regularly. A $5 coffee was a treat, an every once in a while thing, not a regular purchase. I’d say to myself, “Just think how much that adds up over a month, a year!” There was a time when looking at apartments in beach towns was daydreaming, not planning for my future. And there was no way I would have bought a $200 fake plant.
But that is the reality that I live now. An $80 monthly payment is no big deal. Going to Starbucks is still a treat, but one I get to give myself on a regular basis – without guilt about how much I am spending on coffee in a month or a year. Beach apartments are not some far off thing, but a very real next step. And yes, I did recently buy a $200 fake plant.
And all of that is because I changed my relationship with money.
I dedicated myself to digging in. To journaling. To being honest and vulnerable with myself. Over the years, things had shifted, but it really changed when I made that commitment and developed my own way to change my money mindset.
And I am dedicated to supporting you create your new reality with money.
“Speaking about money brings up A LOT of feelings in people. Shelby has the talented capability of discussing money in a non-judgmental, yet positive way. She meets you at your level and raises you up at your own pace. Working with Shelby was the missing piece of the puzzle I didn’t even know I needed! Great results WILL come from your time with Shelby and her wisdom.”
– Melissa Fernandez of The Atlanta Postpartum Doula
Let's do this together. Your desires, my framework.
First, we mix the ingredients.
🧈 First, we start with YOUR Desires. We start with where you are currently at, while supporting you to get to where you want to go. Because YOU are the magic ingredient in all of this.
🥚 Then we add my framework: 1/3rd mindset coaching, 1/3rd journaling, and 1/3rd energy work.
Mindset coaching gives you the support and insight to create shifts in your thoughts. Journaling is the tool you’ll use outside of our sessions to continue shifting and receiving insights. While energy work shifts the energy making all the other work a bit easier.
🥣 After these ingredients are combined and folded in together – we pour them into their molds or containers – the 9 sessions we’ll have together.
Then, we pour them into our molds - the sessions.
Then, we pour them into our molds - the sessions.
Session 1 – Beginning to Detangle your Programming
Sometimes we have to loosen up the tangled ball of programs in order to get to something to work with.
Session 2 – Addressing Fears + Projections
As you are unraveling the program ball, you may run into fears and projections that keep you stuck. In this session, you get some tools to tackle them with.
Session 3 – Building Self-Compassion
This work is hard to do unless you give yourself some grace and compassion, plain and simple.
Session 4 – Holding Appreciation
No fake gratitude here. Only the organic kind.
You’ll also learn energy work for those days even when you aren’t feeling that particularly grateful.
Session 5 – Assessing Money Comfort levels
Feel like you can receive $1,000 but not $5,000?
We’ll work on that.
Session 6 – Releasing Pressures
We don’t pressure cook in this kitchen. In fact, we work to do the opposite.
Session 7 – Small Debt Acceptance
Debt can be like the largest, world-record holding cake. We don’t take it on all at once. We start with bite-sized pieces.
Session 8 – Continue Detangling
Oh look! We’ve loosened that tangled ball up a bit, but as we did that, we ran across some other things. Let’s look at that!
Session 9 – Review + Plan next steps
The oven timer is going off and you are ready for what comes next. But don’t worry, I’m not a mother bird shoving you out of the nest. We make sure that you have the supports you need so you can soar!
Session 1 – Beginning to Detangle your Programming
Sometimes we have to loosen up the tangled ball of programs in order to get to something to work with.
Session 2 – Addressing Fears + Projections
As you are unraveling the program ball, you may run into fears and projections that keep you stuck. In this session, you get some tools to tackle them with.
Session 3 – Building Self-Compassion
This work is hard to do unless you give yourself some grace and compassion, plain and simple.
Session 4 – Holding Appreciation
No fake gratitude here. Only the organic kind.
You’ll also learn energy work for those days even when you aren’t feeling that particularly grateful.
Session 5 – Assessing Money Comfort levels
Feel like you can receive $1,000 but not $5,000?
We’ll work on that.
Session 6 – Releasing Pressures
We don’t pressure cook in this kitchen. In fact, we work to do the opposite.
Session 7 – Small Debt Acceptance
Debt can be like the largest, world-record holding cake. We don’t take it on all at once. We start with bite-sized pieces.
Session 8 – Continue Detangling
Oh look! We’ve loosened that tangled ball up a bit, but as we did that, we ran across some other things. Let’s look at that!
Session 9 – Review + Plan next steps
The oven timer is going off and you are ready for what comes next. But don’t worry, I’m not a mother bird shoving you out of the nest. We make sure that you have the supports you need so you can soar!
And we top it off with Voxer support.
Voxer is a text and voice messaging app that we use to stay in contact in between sessions.
Life doesn’t happen in neat 1 hour segments, once a week. Life happens all the time.
You will be journaling in between sessions, continuing to reframe your thoughts, and detangling the programs you’ve been given.
As you do this work, things do tend to come up. You may find a particular topic a bit sticky or you may desire more insight on something that came up.
That’s were Voxer comes in.
You don’t have to wait until our next session to receive support.
We can talk things out on the app, which gives us the time and space during the session to add the next layer.
And that's how we create your new reality,
your new relationship with money!
“Shelby is an energy magician. I love how she leverages all her skills & modalities for holistic, balanced support.
She is so informed of external structures & oppression, which makes it easier to unpack complex & layered issues, in order to discern what’s mine & what’s not.
Her mindset support helped me learn to take things less personally, & how to continue to take action & move forward without the energetic weight of self-hate or self-blame, two issues that have been difficult for me lately, to the point of slowing down my business.
Shelby’s help opened my heart up & injected much-needed light-heartedness back into my business. Her highly-valued support helped me establish the boundaries needed to shift out of resentment, & back into a sentimental relationship with the work that fuels me.”
Feeling hungry yet?
Then let’s work together!
From now thru working together, here is what that looks like:
🍩 You’ll start with clicking the link below.
🍩 Then take 5-10 minutes to fill out the application.
🍩 I will reach out to you within 24-48 hours on Instagram, or via email.
🍩 We’ll discuss your goals and desires + what working together would look like.
🍩 If we decide to work together, you’ll receive the appropriate payment link.
🍩 Following your payment, we’ll get your first session scheduled!
🍩 And you’ll get access to your bonuses even before our first call!
I want you to be able to start as soon as possible because I know how important this work is. I’ve experienced it in my life and seen it in the lives of my clients.
Tune into your body and review the details.
Tune into your body, observing your thoughts and emotions.
Are you ready to change your mentality and energy around money?
If it feels like you are or if you said yes in your head – then let’s get that call scheduled!
Submit your application and let's chat!
Let's get to know each other and decide if this would be a good fit!or 3 month payment plan at $1200
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$5700 Value
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9 sessions scheduled over 3 months
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Voxer Access beginning after purchase
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Bonus: Limitless - The Money Mindset Journaling Bundle
“Great results WILL come from your time with Shelby and her wisdom.“
– Melissa Fernandez of The Atlanta Postpartum Doula
Q+A
Good question!
The 4th week is an off week. It is there for both you and I to rest, but also to attend to other things in our businesses.
You have other things you need to attend, or sessions you are hosting, or even just posts to create. Plus you have a life outside of your business. The off week gives us both time to get some of those things done in an intentional way.
It doesn’t usually happen that sessions go unused – but sometimes life happens and we need to reschedule a session.
If that is the case, then we just schedule it in. For example, if your package was ending this week, but we had to reschedule, then we extend it to next week so we can finish up.
However, this is not usually needed since we have those 4th off weeks scheduled in, we can always be flexible with them!
If you don’t have a Voxer account already, I invite you to create one! I really enjoy having it as a separate space to connect with my clients. It is less distracting than trying to chat in FB messenger or Insta’s DMs.
If you don’t like Voxer, then we can discuss an alternative like FB messenger or Instagram to connect. Those inboxes tend to be busier and so it may take me more time to find and respond to your message there, as opposed to Voxer. But as long as you are cool with that, then I am open to accommodations!
Cool! That is something you get to explore! And I really don’t mean that sarcastically.
When we see a price and it causes feelings to come up within us, it is an opportunity to explore the programming. So first, take some deep breaths. Notice the thoughts that come up around the price. “I’ve never spent that before.” “I can’t afford that.” And so on. After noticing the thoughts, you get to ask next – are they true? Sometimes they are. Sometimes they are founded in other things. Most of the time there is some amount of each to it.
Even if you are a little scared, I want you to feel good about your decision.
And if it is the case that this just isn’t a good fit for you right now, then I would suggest looking at the journaling bundle instead. Click here to give a look!
We do not.
I fully trust in you and the fact that you will see results. If you have results that you are specifically looking for, that’s what the application is for! You’ll fill it out, including your desires for your relationship with money, and then we’ll discuss what working 1:1 to support you in getting there looks like.
Through November 30th, you can choose an extended payment plan. The typical payment plan for this package is 3 months.
However, the extended payment plans go all the way up to 10 months, depending on your financial requirements and comfortability.
6 months = $675 / month
9 months = $450 / month
10 months = $405 / month
I want everyone to have a better that direct the flow of money away from many of us and to very few of us.
And part of that unequal flow, is upheld relationship with money. It is a resource that is supposed to support us. But that historically, hasn’t been the case. People and systems have created ways by the programming we have been given.
Programming in this case, refers to the beliefs, norms, and thoughts that inform our actions.
The programs we receive around money are many times unsupportive.
– “Hush don’t talk about it. But also strive for it and spend it so you can feel like you are a part of certain ‘desirable’ groups and classes of people.”
– “Go to school, to university. Accumulate debt. Don’t ask questions. This is the only way.”
– “Don’t talk about pay in the work place. Don’t ask for it in the interview. Don’t discuss your wages with your coworkers. That’s private. And while you aren’t talking about it, we will take advantage of that and pay women less, and women of color even less.” (That last part isn’t typically said aloud.)
– “Running is a business is all about profit. You have to cut others at the knees to make sure you get what you want. Step over the people below you and use the people above you to climb up. It’s a dog-eat-dog world.”
But I think you get the picture.
We are going to rewrite the programs you’ve been given. Many times, the programs we have were not consciously chosen by us. They were performed by people around us or even said to us directly. But together we will work to give you back your autonomy and give you consent to what you decide to take on.
And this is especially important as entrepreneurs. Because these programs inform how we are running our businesses, whether we are aware of that or not.
If we are told that we must strive for profit, people be damned, then we will be direct to ways to do that – unconsciously or subconsciously. You will be direct to options that betray your morals and your heart.
I know you want to change how things are. You probably wouldn’t be here, nor have read this far, if you were interested in maintaining the status quo. Maybe you’ve already been listening to the podcast or receiving the newsletters. Or you are joining the movement on social media.
Or maybe you were guided and led here without any previous awareness of what money mindset work is or who I am.
But regardless, you are here for a reason.
So let’s explore what that looks like together.