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A Supportive Membership for People of All Genders looking to Reprogram, Nourish, and Thrive in Life, Business, and Vision.

You are ready to let go.
To stop pushing. To begin nourishing yourself.

You are ready to change your programming.
And to learn about energy without the cis-heteronormative flavoring.

You need a space in which you can be yourself.
Be brave. Be open.

Because you are ready to create a thriving life, business, and vision.

I feel you because I’ve been in groups where cis-heteronormativity was perpetuated.

I was told that as a woman, I should draw my power from my womb. That being a mother was the ultimate expression of energy I could strive for.

And the only other option was forceful masculine energy – taking what you want and pushing until you achieved what you wanted. As limiting as this was, it wasn’t even available to me. I could only engage with it through romantic and sexual relationship with men – the epitome of relationships because of the balancing of the prescribed feminine energy I was supposed to have.

There was no room for anyone outside of these boxes. Not for myself. Not for trans people. Not for ace, aro, or demi people. Not for lesbians or gay people. Not for anyone but cishet people.

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That’s why I’ve created Oasis to intentionally be a membership community for people of all genders.

It is a space for learning about and providing energy work, reprogramming our minds, and nourishing relaxation in our lives – so we can create thriving lives, business, and visions.

This is a space for exploring what all of this looks like when we are brave in addressing internalized messages and in fully being ourselves.

Deprogram. Nourish. Thrive.

This builds the foundation for the life, business, and vision you wish to create. Because as entrepreneurs, our businesses and our visions are really separate from who we are. By creating change in mindset, energy, and relaxation – we create change not just in our life, but in our businesses and visions as well.

“REMINDER: Shelby is an energy goddess – you need to work with her.”

-Karla of GoddessFlowerBlends.com

In Oasis, there are 3 guiding pillars.

Build a Healthier Mindset

This is not only where we will deprogram biases, but also create new programming in your mind to support your life, business, and vision. Part of this is learning, part of this is breaking down beliefs using the evidence-based, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) model which is based in the idea that thoughts and feelings affect our behaviors. The other part of this is affirmations to reaffirm the new beliefs and thoughts.

Our minds, and the programs given to us, can create blocks. It limits our perception to see what is possible, what solutions we can come up with, and it limits our lives. By breaking this down, it not only opens up possibilities in your life, but within your business as well – so you can create that vision.

Learn and Receive Energy Work

Once per theme you will be receiving Reiki through a guided meditation. But we will also be deconstructing what has been traditionally taught in energy work – masculine/feminine, and other cis-heteronormative ideas.

Everything is energy – including your business and your vision.  For example, if something is off in your energy, it can affect your business, and thus your clients and potential clients. But the same goes for your business – if there is something off in your business’s energy, it can affect your energy and the energy of your clients or potential clients.

Through doing the energy work together, you can shift the energies to be more supportive, rather than hinder your movement forward.

The energy work, plus the once per theme breathwork, are conducted so that you are nourishing yourself. There will also be other pieces on the biology of stress, de-stress and relaxation tips, and self-care not just as consumerism.

The purpose of this is two-fold. 1. Chances are, you are already stressed. These pieces aim to help you get closer, if not back to, a relaxed baseline for greater healing. 2. There will always be things that will cause stress. By having the tools to deal with it, you can better move through stressful times, but also it will help to prevent burn out as you create and grow your business and vision.

I attended one of Shelby’s group reiki sessions, and it was wonderful! She is a master at caring for and directing your energy (she’s literally a rose quartz crystal for you + your biz).

Shelby’s reiki helped me gain clarity on my paths of abundance and where they were coming from. Her session also helped me widen those paths and remove the blocks that were in the way. If you’re looking to shift your energy or the energy of your biz, I highly recommend working with Shelby!

– Ardelia Lee, Human Design + Content Strategist

These pillars are set to a seasonal structure. Every 3 months, a new theme will be announced. Themes may include things like anger, intimacy, and boundaries. During each season you’ll receive information, affirmations, breathwork, and energy work pertaining to the theme for that period. You’ll also receive access to a guest expert who will facilitate a training or provide a service pertaining to the them as well! Here’s what that looks like:

The theme, dates for live events, and guest expert are announced at the beginning of the month. This sets the understanding for the Season and gives some information on the theme and what to expect.

During this month you will also receive affirmations and CBT-based work and information for deprogramming.

The first live event, the breathwork event, will be scheduled during this time. Our breath is connected to the responses of our nervous system. By consciously breathing in different ways, we can help to activate or deactivate the sympathetic nervous system which is responsible for the stress response.

During Month 2, there will be more text posts, info-graphics, or handouts related to the theme. These may include educational posts, relaxation and de-stress posts, or other things guided by the requests of the group.

During this month we will also have our Group Reiki Live Event. For all live events, I will go live in the membership group. You may attend live or catch the replay. For this event specifically, reiki is a type of energy work practice and tradition. It will flow through me and into you for the stated purpose related to the theme. This is also a relaxing event for further nourishing yourself.

The third month of each season is focused on the Guest Expert. Although they will be participating and engaging in the membership throughout the entirety of the season, this month is when the focus shifts to them.

During this month, the guest expert will provide their live event. It will focus on their area of expertise and how it relates to the theme for the season.

Guest Experts go through an application process before being decided upon for the group to better ensure they are a good fit. Want to be one? Learn more by clicking here.

There is so much value here! But it isn’t everything!

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For signing up – You also get free access to my video bundles!

Build a Solid Spiritual Foundation Bundle –  for laying down the basics of spirituality.
You’ll learn how to cleanse, ground, and shield your energy – which not only benefit you specifically, but you’ll see will also positively affect your business. (We aren’t as separate from our businesses as we may think.) You also receive: videos on spirituality, intuition, and energy to help create a foundational understanding; two crystal e-booklets where you can apply some of the things you learned; and my entire meditation collection for furthering your spiritual understanding and work!

You are Massively Intuitive Bundle – for taking beginning steps to connecting with and growing your intuition.
There is an intuition meditation, for connecting into your intuition; the first and only Periscope I ever did; the Intuition Power Up series and Know Your Mood States video then help you to discern between other things and your intuition as well as tackle some limiting beliefs that may be getting in the way of growing and deepening your intuition. All of this serves to help you with not only the energy work you will be participating in, but also helps with making business decisions

Boost Your Biz Bundle – for understanding energy, how it relates to your biz, and working with it!
The first 4 videos build on the Spiritual Foundation Bundle’s understanding of energy and how you are an energy changer and work through it. The Up Your Biz Energy Series is then applying energy to your business! And then you also get some Reiki Videos! Each of the videos targets a specific topic, meaning you can watch them whenever you need to target some energy shifts in your business!

Bangin’ New Year’s Magic Bundle – for starting a new year, or time period, with a little bit of magic!
Content includes the Make it Magic video series which combines energy work and goal planning! Energy work is practical! So, incorporate it into the things you do from goal setting to vision boards! This can also be applied directly to one’s business and vision. So not just life goals, but business and vision goals as well!

             AND …

… you also get the Welcome Presentation and Training Video to jump start your deprogramming, PLUS an energy work session!

The Welcome Video helps lay out the foundation for the group. It is important when working together to have a sense of collective understanding. We go over Stuff to Know, Further Learning, and the Boundaries of the membership so that we are all clear and on the same page!

The Welcome Energy Work Session just helps to bring all of this in! We are clearing out unhelpful and harmful programing as well as making the reprogramming of your brain go smoother and clearer.

** IF YOU SIGN UP BEFORE 6/26 THEN YOU CAN JOIN THIS CLEARING LIVE AS A BONUS!

You wake up with money in your account and a referral notification – one of your friends is sending a client your way. You made this friend and others through the membership they are now like family and you all repeatedly refer clients to each other. They think this person could really benefit from your work, and they know you are a safe, supportive, and ethical person. They trust you. You shoot a quick reply of gratitude and begin in on your morning rituals of caring for and nourishing yourself.

You start in on your work for the day relaxed. And even though something unexpected comes up, something that would have previously caused anxiety, worry, and fear. But, now, you are able to use your stress-management tools and it doesn’t quite bother you the same way. You are actually able to put it on your to-do list for after lunch rather than drop everything to address it. You feel good.

It’s now dinner time and you are having a night in with your chosen family. They remark about how much growth you’ve shown over the last few months. How much more confident you seem. How much less stressed you are. And they are so excited to see your vision unfolding. You thank them and you know the progress you have made, but it still feels good that the people in your life outside of the membership see and recognize the work you’ve been doing.

You phone buzzes. The referral from earlier just made a purchase. You smile. It all just feels so magical.

– This. This is the vision that I have for everyone who comes into Oasis. Relaxed through nourishment. Confidence and growth through reprogramming. And bringing it all together into a thriving life, biz, and vision.

Does this feel exciting?
Do you want this kind of magic for your life?
Are you ready for this vision?

EARLY BIRD PRICES THROUGH 6/25/2019
+ Attend a bonus live Reiki Clearing on 6/26

Pay Year to Year.

$370

– Oasis Membership Access
– Monthly Live Events
– Seasonal affirmations, CBT-based work, related educational posts, and relaxation and de-stress information
– Guest Expert Access
– Vetted Resource Pages for Further Learning
– Private Oasis Facebook Group
– BONUS: Welcome Video + Reiki Clearing
– BONUS: 4 Video Bundles
– EARLY BIRD BONUS: Attend the Welcome Reiki Clearing via Live
– Save $74 as opposed to paying month to month.

Pay Month to Month.

$37

– Oasis Membership Access
– Monthly Live Events
– Seasonal affirmations, CBT-based work, related educational posts, and relaxation and de-stress information
– Guest Expert Access
– Vetted Resource Pages for Further Learning
– Private Oasis Facebook Group
– BONUS: Welcome Video + Reiki Clearing
– BONUS: 4 Video Bundles
– EARLY BIRD BONUS Attend the Welcome Reiki Clearing via Live

* Unsubscribe at any time by letting us know, or by using the appropriate unsubscribe links in the membership.
We do ask however, that if you can, to give the membership a try for a whole season to get the full experience.
* By enrolling in this membership, you agree to our Terms of Service.

Shelby is a sweet and nurturing force and guide! I came in hesitant to fully trust the process – and Shelby made it so easy. She’s patient and open. While working with her its clear she cares about you and she really listens. Together we’ve bust through limiting beliefs, time traveled to past lifetimes, felt into the clients present in my sphere and boosted my energy for the day to day tasks I need to do.

Overall working with Shelby is an awesome experience — she is a magical reiki genius.

— Neha Jha of Love, Neha Jha

Hi there! It’s me, Shelby Melissa!
I’m so honored and excited that you are interested in Oasis!

I believe we have the power to create change – within ourselves and in the world.

Because I’ve seen it. I’ve lived it.
As a Masters of Social Work student, I saw the differences that we can make when we come together. I saw Recovery Coaches giving back and helping others. I saw people volunteering for organizations that made a difference in their lives. And I saw a social worked become the Mayor.

This change, is nothing new. This is who we are as humans.

After graduation, I struggled. I didn’t realize it at the time, but I was burnt out. I hadn’t given myself a strong foundation for making and creating change. Because, although I was learning and reprogramming, I hadn’t been nourishing myself.

I saw the changes we made in the world, but I had to focus on making change within myself.
And I did.

I went from burnt out to creating and  running a business.

I know you can do the same. I know you can make changes within yourself. That you can deprogram, nourish, and THRIVE! Not just in life, but in business and in your vision as well!

Shelby nurtured my whole being and business so much! Since working with Shelby the visions I had during our healing meditation has enlightened me to move into where I can receive SO MUCH MORE of my desires. Who doesn’t want that?! Shelby allowed me an opportunity to grow and I’m so thankful! Her presence and professionalism really made me feel taken care of, so comfortable and graceful. I loved how specifically she held space for me in a virtual group online type of space. It was so personal and exactly what I needed!

– Toby Hana, Intuitive Energy Healer

EARLY BIRD PRICES THROUGH 6/25/2019
+ Attend a bonus live Reiki Clearing on 6/26

Pay Year to Year.

$370

– Oasis Membership Access
– Monthly Live Events
– Seasonal affirmations, CBT-based work, related educational posts, and relaxation and de-stress information
– Guest Expert Access
– Vetted Resource Pages for Further Learning
– Private Oasis Facebook Group
– BONUS: Welcome Video + Reiki Clearing
– BONUS: 4 Video Bundles
– EARLY BIRD BONUS: Attend the Welcome Reiki Clearing via Live
– Save $74 as opposed to paying month to month.

Pay Month to Month.

$37

– Oasis Membership Access
– Monthly Live Events
– Seasonal affirmations, CBT-based work, related educational posts, and relaxation and de-stress information
– Guest Expert Access
– Vetted Resource Pages for Further Learning
– Private Oasis Facebook Group
– BONUS: Welcome Video + Reiki Clearing
– BONUS: 4 Video Bundles
– EARLY BIRD BONUS Attend the Welcome Reiki Clearing via Live

* Unsubscribe at any time by letting us know, or by using the appropriate unsubscribe links in the membership.
We do ask however, that if you can, to give the membership a try for a whole season to get the full experience.
* By enrolling in this membership, you agree to our Terms of Service.

F.A.Q

How do I know if this is right for me?
Well, you try it! But I’m pretty sure you are going to like it and want to be here if you are someone who is not just dreaming of a business, but you are someone who wants to give back. If you are someone who wants to make a positive impact. And you are looking for a supportive group where you can work through the inner stuff so you can do the outer stuff with one another.

Do I need to have a business?
No you do not! The majority of the content will apply to life, business, and vision; so if you don’t have a business, it will still apply! There just may be some things here or there that will not apply to you.

Does Oasis come with a guarantee?
Clients have had wonderful results from our work together and I believe that you can too, however, we legally cannot guarantee any specific results, and we are obligated to say that the results above may not be typical.

When are the live events?
They are once a month and will be announced on the first of the Season! However, I understand that life can be hectic, so they will be recorded and available for replay.

How much access to Shelby should I expect?
I’ll be in the group, doing live events, making posts, responding to comments, and all that jazz! If you join and find that you want more access, we can always discuss a 1:1 package!

Do you give refunds?
No. You get access to so much content immediately and there is not anything that is available for return.

I have another question.
Of course! Feel free to email me at contact@shelbymelissa.com or schedule a free clarity call by clicking here!

EARLY BIRD PRICES THROUGH 6/25/2019
+ Attend a bonus live Reiki Clearing on 6/26

Pay Year to Year.

$370

– Oasis Membership Access
– Monthly Live Events
– Seasonal affirmations, CBT-based work, related educational posts, and relaxation and de-stress information
– Guest Expert Access
– Vetted Resource Pages for Further Learning
– Private Oasis Facebook Group
– BONUS: Welcome Video + Reiki Clearing
– BONUS: 4 Video Bundles
– EARLY BIRD BONUS: Attend the Welcome Reiki Clearing via Live
– Save $74 as opposed to paying month to month.

Pay Month to Month.

$37

– Oasis Membership Access
– Monthly Live Events
– Seasonal affirmations, CBT-based work, related educational posts, and relaxation and de-stress information
– Guest Expert Access
– Vetted Resource Pages for Further Learning
– Private Oasis Facebook Group
– BONUS: Welcome Video + Reiki Clearing
– BONUS: 4 Video Bundles
– EARLY BIRD BONUS Attend the Welcome Reiki Clearing via Live

* Unsubscribe at any time by letting us know, or by using the appropriate unsubscribe links in the membership.
We do ask however, that if you can, to give the membership a try for a whole season to get the full experience.
* By enrolling in this membership, you agree to our Terms of Service.

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